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brianp1553
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Posted on 07/20/2010

I think all the fellas that are seeking a READY MADE FEMALE Naturist/Nudist know about the shortage of such creatures on Naturist/Nudist sites. OK, so Susan and I beat the odds by linking up via this site back in 2006. The odds must have been very much against this happening.

So what do you think are the reasons for this shortage which has described such ladies as 'As rare as hens teeth'. Of course, as we believe that for a relationship to last there must be something else extra to just wanting to be naked together or with others; we think an easier solution is to get a 'Nice Textile Lady' with whom you have something more in common and gently 'Convert/Customise' her.

Brian and Susan, East Anglia U.K



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Posted on 11/28/2010

As a nudist and a female, I think one of the reason that there are so few of us is that when we post our pics with anything other than just a head shot(that is all that I have on here) the responses  are in many cases borderline porn. Some not all nudist men seem to thinking that nudity is an introd to sex, it not. I don't think many women would mind the admireration, but not the sexual comments. 
 
"Guys what you think is your business but when you put it out there it's not yours anymore. Think before responding"



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Posted on 09/29/2010

This debate will go on and on . What i have found as a gold member for only a couple of weeks , is that on searching this site , there are as many women who lets just say reasons for being here are as dubious as many of the mens . I doubt very much whether many of them have ever been on a naturist beach or to a resort in there lives , and have no intention of doing so . 
 
 
 
The sad thing is , there are so few sites for genuine naturists to contact each other as it is . I think the simple fact is that in the UK anyway , naturism is still very much a joke or seen as an excuse for perv's to eye up women and kids . In europe there is a much better acceptance for naturism ,  and you see a much more even spread of male and female . 
 
 
 
If your a guy or girl looking for a genuine naturist relationship , my advice is to go on holiday to a naturist resort , or find a good beach and just chat . Ive personally found really good friendships this way . 



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Posted on 08/25/2010

I have spoken to many single female nudists through out my life. They feel as if many males clothes free or not keep perving on their privates or make lewd suggestions to them whether the female is single or with a partner. That is not what they seek so many nude women prefer to live their life styles in the privacy of their houses and prefer to go nude in public situations only as beaches or forests if in the company of a male friend for protection.. It has been suggested many times to me that males turn a woman's naked body from a caring human being into a sexual object and I would believe that from comments



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Posted on 07/22/2010

Hi Everyone, Been awhile since I've put my 2 cents in.. Speaking as a woman about the lack of female nudists/naturists out there. It's because women seem to have issues about showing their bodies, for everyone to see. I've spoken to (non-nudist) females about my lifestyle. They don't have a problem being nude with there partner, but they do have a issue with strangers. They don't understand the concept of social nudity. That it's not a sexual thing, and that you can feel safe in that kind of environment. I always try and mention that they should at least be open to try it out. But try it on a day during the week and not on a weekend when there are more ppl. Even try a clothing optional club first.. once they see how everyone is comfortable, then they might want to shed their clothing. ;) Just a suggestion, since that is how I started.. felt real comfortable after my first experience. Maybe they would too. Besides, life is to short to worry about what others might think.. Just go outside of the box and experience something new. You just might find out, you really LOVE it.

Have a Happy Nude Day, Leah



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Posted on 07/22/2010

From reading blogs written by ladies, it seems that many of the woman who try these web sites are hurrassed by guys who seem to be crude or impatient. Since woman tend to be more shy than men, they usually do not take it well if you reqest things of them before getting to know you--at least a little bit.



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Posted on 07/21/2010

Acormolic

Your point about 'Nice ladies not going naked in public' begs the question, maybe some males consider that by being a Naturist/Nudist who is nude on a Public Beach means that they are 'Putting themselves on Offer'? The same applies to Males approaching Males for Sexual activities. It does happen all too often on our Naturist Beaches here in the U.K.

As for me using a Nudist site (NF) to find my lady, back in 2006 (maybe naively) many still had the idea that a Nudist/Naturist site was actually still mostly used by a high propotion of 'Traditionalists' rather than the now seemingly high proportion seeking sexual contacts. Of course even to day not all are looking for sexual opportunties.

Brian and Susan, East Anglia U.K



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Posted on 07/20/2010

Quoting brianp1553

I think all the fellas that are seeking a READY MADE TEMALE Naturist/Nudist know about the shortage of such creatures on Naturist/Nudist sites. OK, so Susan and I beat the odds by linking up via this site back in 2006. The odds must have been very much against this happening.

So what do you think are the reasons for this shortage which has described such ladies as 'As rare as hens teeth'. Of course, as we believe that for a relationship to last there must be something else extra to just wanting to be naked together or with others; we think an easier solution is to get a 'Nice Textile Lady' with whom you have something more in common and gently 'Convert/Customise' her.

Brian and Susan, East Anglia U.K


Brian, you keep suggesting this but it is not what you did, so why do you think it will work? The vast majority of "nice textile ladies" won't get naked in public. The nudist/naturist female is highly desirable, so she will have her choice of suitors and only a few will even be considered. The remainder must settle for what they can get. J.



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